I'm pretty sure when your husband says "I don't want to scare you, but I kinda want to get weird, like kung-fu-zen weird" you should expect change on the horizon. What will that change be? Who even knows. But I have to admit, if kung-fu-zen weird is the direction we're headed, I can deal with that. It sure beats tattooed freak biker wierd. At least we can assume that kung-fu-zen weird is a peaceful existence, I can be down with that.